Comments on: Too Much in Common? http://www.mandikaye.com/2009/05/25/too-much-in-common/ Tue, 10 Jan 2012 18:55:17 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Amanda http://www.mandikaye.com/2009/05/25/too-much-in-common/comment-page-1/#comment-11186 Amanda Wed, 08 Jul 2009 03:16:39 +0000 http://www.mandikaye.com/?p=1029#comment-11186 Sadly... I didn't *want* to. You know? There are just some guys you want to kiss... and some guys you don't. Sadly… I didn’t *want* to. You know? There are just some guys you want to kiss… and some guys you don’t.

]]> By: J http://www.mandikaye.com/2009/05/25/too-much-in-common/comment-page-1/#comment-11179 J Mon, 06 Jul 2009 18:43:26 +0000 http://www.mandikaye.com/?p=1029#comment-11179 You should just go for a great kiss anyway. Sometimes weird expectations or fears can get in the way. But one good smooch should either clear up the weirdness and make you laugh or ???...something!? You should just go for a great kiss anyway. Sometimes weird expectations or fears can get in the way. But one good smooch should either clear up the weirdness and make you laugh or ???…something!?

]]> By: J http://www.mandikaye.com/2009/05/25/too-much-in-common/comment-page-1/#comment-11121 J Sat, 30 May 2009 21:26:50 +0000 http://www.mandikaye.com/?p=1029#comment-11121 An electric charge is essential. ...either that, or lots and lots of cash. An electric charge is essential.

…either that, or lots and lots of cash.

]]> By: Amanda http://www.mandikaye.com/2009/05/25/too-much-in-common/comment-page-1/#comment-11120 Amanda Tue, 26 May 2009 22:40:19 +0000 http://www.mandikaye.com/?p=1029#comment-11120 Yay! Comments! :) <br/> Thanks, to both of you. <br/> Tech - I agree. Sometimes there's spark, sometimes there's not. Yay! Comments! :)

Thanks, to both of you.

Tech – I agree. Sometimes there’s spark, sometimes there’s not.

]]> By: TechSkeptic http://www.mandikaye.com/2009/05/25/too-much-in-common/comment-page-1/#comment-11118 TechSkeptic Tue, 26 May 2009 17:09:19 +0000 http://www.mandikaye.com/?p=1029#comment-11118 I've wondered about things like that often. I have dated a number of pretty, smart, fun women. But there was nothing there. I would ask myself over and over, am I afraid of commitment? Am I too choosy? When I met my wife, those questions left me quickly. I honestly believe, and have some data to support (if you are interested), that we can't help it. There are physical attractors that we respond to, and they may have nothing to do with what we have as a societal definition of beauty. It just happens sometime. We can choose to ignore them, and perhaps some people are successfull in doing that. We are best to just go with the flow. If the flow is telling you no, then you don't go. LOL. anyway, don't feel bad. Just be honest to both of you. I know you will anyway. I’ve wondered about things like that often. I have dated a number of pretty, smart, fun women. But there was nothing there. I would ask myself over and over, am I afraid of commitment? Am I too choosy?

When I met my wife, those questions left me quickly. I honestly believe, and have some data to support (if you are interested), that we can’t help it. There are physical attractors that we respond to, and they may have nothing to do with what we have as a societal definition of beauty. It just happens sometime. We can choose to ignore them, and perhaps some people are successfull in doing that.

We are best to just go with the flow. If the flow is telling you no, then you don’t go.

LOL.

anyway, don’t feel bad. Just be honest to both of you. I know you will anyway.

]]> By: Anna Grace http://www.mandikaye.com/2009/05/25/too-much-in-common/comment-page-1/#comment-11114 Anna Grace Mon, 25 May 2009 20:25:18 +0000 http://www.mandikaye.com/?p=1029#comment-11114 Don't feel bad about it because he brought you flowers. Any decent guy should bring flowers to a first date, in my opinion. Maybe not roses or anything, but some type of flower. But maybe I'm just old fashioned. Don’t feel bad about it because he brought you flowers. Any decent guy should bring flowers to a first date, in my opinion. Maybe not roses or anything, but some type of flower. But maybe I’m just old fashioned.

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