Monthly Archives: December 2007

Idea for Community

by Mandi

Last week I sent this email to several people I know:

Greetings!

I’ve been in a somewhat creative mood for the last few weeks, and, in trying to find an outlet for it, thought of a great idea (I think, anyways).

One of the things I’ve been mulling over recently is how Paul affirmed truth wherever he found it. This tells me that believers shouldn’t be afraid to look and learn from nonbelievers. I’m a big fan of online collaborative efforts like Wrecked for the Ordinary or Burnside Writers Collective, but I’m interested in one that isn’t exclusively Christian. I want to see an online community emerge full of people from all walks of faith (or no faith) that agree that all humanity is worthy of compassion, generosity, and mercy.

I don’t know if this is possible. I don’t know if it’s possible to put these kinds of people together and not have them trying to convert one another. But I’d like to try. I’d like to see people put aside their differences for the greater good. I’d like to see us learning from one another and inspiring one another and encouraging one another.

Would you like to join me? If you would be interested in participating in this joint effort, let me know. If you’re not, but you know someone else who might be, feel free to pass this email along to others.

I still don’t really know what this will look like. There have been folks who have expressed interest, and I’d definitely like to get moving on this. Essentially, what I’m thinking at this point is that each week there would be a topic/issue and people would write about it from their own perspective (whatever it may be). This would not be an opportunity for debate or argument. There would, of course, be forums where discussion could take place, but the main site would not be an appropriate place for finger pointing and the like.

All of this is open to discussion, of course. Any suggestions or ideas are also completely welcome.


What Would Jesus Do?

by Mandi

I found this painting today:

I really like this painting. It depicts Jesus washing the feet of German Chancellor Angela Merkel; Tony Blair, England; Kofi A. Annan, UN; Osama bin Laden; George Bush; Indian Prime Minister Manmohan Singh; and Jiang Zemin, former president of China.I also really like the perspective given by the author of the post where I found it. He suggests that this painting offers a litmus test of sorts for Christians. He also offered two contrasting comments from people who claim the name of Christ.

To me that picture illustrates deep christian magic. Contrary to what some may think, it does not glorify the people getting the foot wash. The fact that their feet are being washed says nothing about their virtue. On the contrary, it glorifies the foot washer. It is a picture of deep humility and inner strength, the kind of strength that would allow someone so awesome to remain humble at the feet of what we can all agree are worldly scumbags. Essentially, that is a deeply illustrative picture of Jesus’s sacrificial love for a very unlovable mankind. There is nothing to be offended about in that picture if you look at it that way. In fact it is quite awesome in my book. That is deep magic, the kind Jesus tried so hard to teach folks about but we just refuse to get it because it goes against our sinful nature.

And this one:

Sorry, I aint that kind of Christian. My Jesus would use nunchucks on Osama bin Laden. Or maybe rip his still beating heart out, Temple of Doom style.

The first one gives me hope that compassion isn’t dead. The second one just hurts.


New Look – Yes, again!

by Mandi

Update #3: The preview comments plugin works again! Yay me for figuring out how to fix it!

Update #2: Thanks to Min, the FF issues were actually fixed before I got to work today! He’s totally awesome. Now, techskeptic, I also revised the font size of the recent posts listing – I hope it’s to your satisfaction. <g>

Update: If you’re using Firefox, this site won’t look right today. I won’t be able to work on it until tonight to try and fix it. You can always look at it in IE7 to see how it’s supposed to look. ::big grin::

As you can see, I have yet another new theme. If you find something broken, let me know so I can attempt to fix it.


My Statement of Faith

by Mandi

I took some time today to put together my personal statement of faith. Check it out (you can also click in the right side bar).


I am a Christian

by Mandi

A lot has happened in the last year to change who I am and how I think. Because of that, I want to take the opportunity to explain to you how I’ve changed and how I remain the same.

If I had to choose one word to describe myself, I would use the word Christian. As much as I hate the negative connotation that goes with it, I can’t deny that’s who I am.

I am a follower of Christ.

I was accused today of attacking Christianity with a passion above everything else. My intent has never been to attack Christianity. I attack the godless practices of Christianity. I attack the legalism and the double standards. But I don’t attack Christianity.

I don’t censor my comments here, unless they degrade into juvenile name-calling and bashing. As a result, I tend to have a lot of comments from people who aren’t Christian – sometimes because they praise what I’ve said and sometimes because they hate what I’ve said. A lot of times because they disagree with something another Christian has posted in the comments. If this offends you, or makes me less of a Christian in your eyes, then you don’t have to stick around.

This website isn’t my attempt to please anyone on this earth. I’m not trying to make nonbelievers like me. Similarly, I’m not trying to make believers like me. It’s here to be my voice. Sometimes I lose that voice, but for the most part, this is me.

I don’t have everything figured out. You’ll see a lot of posts that question things. You may even see some posts that seem to contradict each other. I’m still asking a lot of questions. Hopefully, I’ll never stop doing that. No one has everything figured out. Not me, not you, not Donald Miller or Rob Bell. Not Tozer or Swindoll. Or Dobson. Pick your flavor of Christian, and I can guarantee you that they don’t have it all figured out (regardless of what they may say).

If you disagree with me, speak up. If you agree with me, I still say speak up!

I love Jesus Christ. I love God. But I hate the things that are done in God’s name. I hate that people have screwed up Christianity for so many. I hate that we’ve forgotten that Jesus was a lover, not a hater. We’ve forgotten what it means to be kind, generous, merciful, and compassionate.

If I agree with an atheist, it’s because I genuinely think their point is a better one than the Christian counterpoint. If that makes me less of a Christian in your eyes, you don’t have to stick around.

The measure of “how Christian” I may or may not be is up to God. I don’t fit in the mold of a traditional Christian – and for that, I’m thankful.

Overall, I’m still just Mandi Kaye. I’m a woman in her twenties trying to figure both life and faith out. I’d love to have you join me in this endeavor, but if you can’t, I understand that too.


Why is this offensive?

by Mandi

I just don’t understand why there are Christians so up in arms about this sign. Christians are constantly citing freedom of speech and religion in their efforts to be heard, but it seems like as soon as someone who disagrees with them tries it, it’s a whole new ball game. That’s frustrating to me because it’s a double standard. It’s like saying we can say whatever we want, even if it offends you, but you can say nothing that may offend me.

Argh!


Perspectives of Women and the Media

by Mandi

Most of the time, I’m fairly content with myself. I’m a big woman, and if you don’t like it, well too bad for you. If the way I look would stop you from getting to know me then it’s not me missing out – it’s you. (Funny side note – I’m watching the Sound of Music with my roomie right now, and the song “I Have Confidence” just started – coincidence? :) )

I know I could be healthier. But I happen to know some absolutely gorgeous women who are large. You don’t have to be a size 2 to be beautiful.

Unfortunately, most people don’t realize that. Last week, Jennifer Love Hewitt took a lot of flak for some photos of her in a bikini. People called her fat because of that photo. I stumbled onto a flickr set that illustrates BMI and how off the categories really are. There were some photos of gorgeous women and they are considered overweight, obese, or morbidly obese – and it just seemed ridiculous. I showed them to a friend, and she looked at the pictures and agreed with the categories. I was mortified! I couldn’t understand how she could look at some of those photos and agree with the classification.

But then I stumbled onto another website, and I realized why. People’s perspectives of how a woman should really look are so skewed because of Photoshop.

We think that when we look at a photo in a magazine that the model/celebrity actually looks like that. After all, cameras don’t lie. But they don’t actually look like that! 

That’s why so many of us have such a screwed up picture of what women (and even men) should look like. And it’s stupid. We should be thrilled with how people actually look instead of lamenting that we don’t look the way touched up photos do.

I don’t know if this is something that can be changed – though I’m inclined to think not.


Logos and Truth

by Mandi

There’s a section in Chapter Three of Velvet Elvis that reminded me of something that I desperately need to remember. This section is called “Logos” and, in it, I see myself. I see the me who struggled this summer to find the truth and have a faith large enough to hold it. I see countless people in this section who have turned away from God because they couldn’t fit both God and newfound knowledge in the same box.

This section comes right after he talks about affirming the truth wherever you find it. It’s a great section. I hope you’re as inspired by these words as I was.

Do you know anybody who grew up in a religious environment, maybe even a Christian one, and walked away from faith/church/God when they turned eighteen and went away to college?

Whenever I ask this question in a group of people, almost every hand goes up. Let me suggest why. Imagine what happens when a young woman is raised in a Christian setting but hasn’t been taught that all things are hers and then goes to a university where she’s exposed to all sorts of new ideas and views and perspectives. She takes classes in psychology and anthropology and biology and world history, and her professors are people who have devoted themselves to their particular fields of study. Is it possible that in the course of lecturing on their field of interest, her professors will from time to time say things that are true? Of course. Truth is available to everyone.

But let’s say her professors aren’t Christians, it is not a “Christian” university, and this young woman hasn’t been taught that all things are hers. What if she has been taught that Christianity is the only thing that’s true? What if she has been taught that there is no truth outside the Bible? She’s now faced with this dilemma: believe the truth she’s learning or the Christian faith she was brought up with.

Or we could put her dilemma this way: intellectual honesty or Jesus?

How many times have you seen this? I can’t tell you the number of people in their late teens or early twenties I know, or those I have been told about, who experience truth outside the boundaries of their religion and abandon the whole thing because they think it’s a choice (which is a fatal flaw in thinking we’ll address in a moment). They are experiencing truth in all sorts of new ways, and they need a faith that is big enough to handle it. Their box is getting blown apart, and the faith they were handed doesn’t have room for what they are learning.

But it isn’t a choice, because Jesus said, “I am the way, the truth, the life.” If you come across truth in any form, it isn’t outside your faith as a Christian. Your faith just got bigger. To be a Christian is to claim truth wherever you find it.

It’s not truth over here and Jesus over there, as if they were two different things. Where we find one, we find the other. Jesus is quoted in the book of John saying, “I and the Father are one.” If Jesus and God are one, if Jesus shows us what God is really, truly like, and God is truth and all truth is God’s truth, then Jesus takes us into the truth, not away from it. He frees us to embrace whatever is true and good and beautiful wherever we find it.

To live this way then, we have to believe in a big Jesus. For many, Jesus was presented to them as the solution to a problem. In fact, this has been the dominant way of explaining the story of the Bible in Western culture for the past several hundred years. It’s not that it is wrong; it’s just that Jesus is so much more. The presentation often begins with sin and the condition of human beings, separated from God and without hope in the world. God then came up with a way to fix the problem by sending Jesus, who came to the world to give us a way out of the mess we find ourselves in. So if we were to draw a continuum of the story of the Bible, Jesus essentially shows up late in the game.

But the first Christians didn’t see Jesus this way, as if God were somewhere else and then cooked up some way to solve the sin problem at the last minute by getting involved as Jesus. They believed that Jesus was somehow more, that Jesus had actually been present since before creation and had been a part of the story all along.

In the first line of his gospel, John calls Jesus the “Word”. The word Word here in Greek is the word logos, which is where we get the English word logic.

Logic, intelligence, design. The blueprint of creation.

When we speak of these concepts, what we are describing is the way the world is arranged. There is some sort of order under the chaos, and some people seem to have a better handle on it than others. Some understand math, some the human psyche, and others can speak clearly and compellingly about the solar system. When we say someone is intelligent, we are saying they have insight to how things are put together.

And the Bible keeps insisting that Jesus is how God put things together. The writer Paul said that Jesus is how God holds all things together. The Bible points us to a Jesus who is in some mysterious way behind it all.

Jesus is the arrangement. Jesus is the design. Jesus is the intelligence. For a Christian, Jesus’ teachings aren’t to be followed because they are a nice way to live a moral life. They are to be followed because they are the best possible insight into how the world really works. They teach us how things are.

I don’t follow Jesus because I think Christianity is the best religion. I follow Jesus because he leads me into ultimate reality. He teaches me to live in tune with how reality is. When Jesus said, “No one comes to the Father except through me,” he was saying that his way, his words, his life is our connection to how things truly are at the deepest levels of existence. For Jesus then, the point of religion is to help us connect with ultimate reality, God. I love the way Paul puts it in the book of Colossians: These religious acts and rituals are shadows of the reality. “The reality…is found in Christ.”

I love this section. I come from a faith tradition that limits faith. It didn’t have room for truth outside of what is found in the Bible, even though we all know there is truth outside of the Bible. Thank you, Rob Bell, for reminding me of that.


Christian Carnival 201

by Mandi

This week’s Christian Carnival is up, and there are some really good posts from this last week!

Enjoy!


November Stats

by Mandi

I’m a few days late with this, I know, but here are my November stats. These are definitely my best ever, thanks to SU.

Page Visits: 4,877

Page Views: 9,009

Unique Visitors: 3,863

Top Posts:

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Searches that brought people here:

  • the golden compass
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  • letters from a skeptic
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Plus a fair amount that use some combination of locker room and sex.


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