I’m going to scream!!!!
Oct 29th, 2007 by Amanda
My best friend and I can’t stop fighting.
For a long time I said everything was all her fault, and then she said it was all my fault. I finally managed to admit that we’ve both been at fault, and she comes back with, “How is it my fault?”
It makes me want to rip my hair out, destroy my phone, throw things around, and stomp up and down like a kid throwing a tantrum.
I’ve been insecure in our friendship for awhile now. An old friend is moving back to the area and they’ve gotten kind of friendly and I’m jealous. I feel threatened. I’ve come right out and told her that a few times, and that seems to make me the sole bad guy.
I don’t want to paint her in a bad light, because we’ve both screwed up. I just wish we could get past it and be us again.
Oh dear. Maybe you need some time out? Or could you just draw a line under it, forget who’s to blame and move forward (I know, easier said than done).