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Christianity=Interpersonal Relationships

A large portion of Christianity deals with how you respond to other people (and to God). Unfortunately, this is an aspect of Christianity that is rarely talked about in church – which makes you wonder what kind of Christianity we’re really teaching people about.

In thinking about this today, I thought it would be a good idea to revisit a post I wrote last year about what it really means to be a Christian. And I’m reposting this for my benefit as much as anyone else’s — I still need to internalize true Christianity as opposed to the version I’ve been taught all my life.


The word “Christian” is nearly as ambiguous as the word “love” in the English language. Ask 5 people what it means and you’ll likely get five different answers. Often it’s used to describe the following:

  • a church member
  • someone who has been baptized or confirmed
  • someone who is very moral
  • someone who is very religious

But if you look to the Bible for a definition of Christianity, you’ll see that it is none of those things.

So what does it mean to be a Christian?

The simplest answer is this: a follower of Jesus Christ. Of course, in this day and age that, too, is also fairly ambiguous.

So let’s start with the basics. How do you become a follower of Jesus Christ? That’s probably the simplest question to answer.

“That if you confess with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you confess and are saved. As the Scripture says, “Anyone who trusts in him will never be put to shame.” For there is no difference between Jew and Gentile—the same Lord is Lord of all and richly blesses all who call on him, for, “Everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved.” (Romans 10:9-13 NIV)I really like what the Message says here too (emphasis mine):

Say the welcoming word to God—”Jesus is my Master”—embracing, body and soul, God’s work of doing in us what he did in raising Jesus from the dead. That’s it. You’re not “doing” anything; you’re simply calling out to God, trusting him to do it for you. That’s salvation. With your whole being you embrace God setting things right, and then you say it, right out loud: “God has set everything right between him and me!” Scripture reassures us, “No one who trusts God like this—heart and soul—will ever regret it.” It’s exactly the same no matter what a person’s religious background may be: the same God for all of us, acting the same incredibly generous way to everyone who calls out for help. “Everyone who calls, ‘Help, God!’ gets help.”

It’s all about realizing that you’re a sinner and that there’s nothing you can do by your own power to redeem yourself. It’s about calling on Jesus to become Lord of your life and allowing Him to change you from the inside out.

Once you take the initiative to call on Jesus, then a process has started in your life. A process that changes you to become more like Christ in attitudes, ambitions, and actions.

From Jim Berg’s Changed Into His Image:

Christlikeness is not the same as following a moral or ethical ideal. It is not simply possessing more knowledge of Bible content or Bible principles. It is not merely replacing old habits with new ones or being and doing good. Furthermore, it is not becoming well-adjusted or recovering from some life-dominating sin. Christlikeness is the manifestation of the fruit of God’s Spirit* in the life of a believer beholding the glory of God.

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While living on this earth, Jesus Christ exemplified the characteristics of a man controlled by the Holy Spirit and in perfect fellowship with God. His submission to and dependence upon His Father and His sacrificial ministry to others blended those characteristics into a perfect ideal Paul called “the form [nature] of a servant” (Phil. 2:7). Servanthood is grown-up Christianity.

*The fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control.

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“Brotherment”

A new study asserts that gay unions between existed some 600 years ago in Medieval Europe:

Civil unions between male couples existed around 600 years ago in medieval Europe, a historian now says.

Historical evidence, including legal documents and gravesites, can be interpreted as supporting the prevalence of homosexual relationships hundreds of years ago, said Allan Tulchin of Shippensburg University in Pennsylvania.

If accurate, the results indicate socially sanctioned same-sex unions are nothing new, nor were they taboo in the past.

“Western family structures have been much more varied than many people today seem to realize,” Tulchin writes in the September issue of the Journal of Modern History. “And Western legal systems have in the past made provisions for a variety of household structures.”

For example, he found legal contracts from late medieval France that referred to the term “affrèrement,” roughly translated as brotherment. Similar contracts existed elsewhere in Mediterranean Europe, Tulchin said.

In the contract, the “brothers” pledged to live together sharing “un pain, un vin, et une bourse,” (that’s French for one bread, one wine and one purse). The “one purse” referred to the idea that all of the couple’s goods became joint property. Like marriage contracts, the “brotherments” had to be sworn before a notary and witnesses, Tulchin explained.

The same type of legal contract of the time also could provide the foundation for a variety of non-nuclear households, including arrangements in which two or more biological brothers inherited the family home from their parents and would continue to live together, Tulchin said.

But non-relatives also used the contracts. In cases that involved single, unrelated men, Tulchin argues, these contracts provide “considerable evidence that the affrèrés were using affrèrements to formalize same-sex loving relationships.”

The ins-and-outs of the medieval relationships are tricky at best to figure out.

“I suspect that some of these relationships were sexual, while others may not have been,” Tulchin said. “It is impossible to prove either way and probably also somewhat irrelevant to understanding their way of thinking. They loved each other, and the community accepted that.”

Interesting news, but not so surprising. After all, Solomon did say that there’s nothing new under the sun.

The Gathering of Hens

Why do people feel the need to gossip? I don’t mean to exclude men by the title of this post–they gossip too–but the event that triggered this post was a pair of hens cackling.

I can’t claim to be blame-free when it comes to gossip. Sometimes I do it because it just feels good to make yourself feel as if you’re better than someone else. It’s just as wrong as anyone else that I’m about to rant about here, and I acknowledge that.

Gossip serves no beneficial purpose. It hurts people. It tears people down. And in reality, it makes the person who is doing the gossip look worse.

I read this the other day, and it’s good:

In ancient Greece, Socrates was reputed to hold knowledge in high esteem. One day an acquaintance met the great philosopher and said, “Do you know what I just heard about your friend?”

“Hold on a minute,” Socrates replied. “Before telling me anything I’d like you to pass a little test. It”s called the Three Filters Test.”

“Three Filters?”

“That’s right,” Socrates continued. “Before you talk to me about my friend, it might be a good idea to take a moment and filter what you’re going to say. That’s why I call it the Three Filters Test.

The first filter is Truth. Have you made absolutely sure that what you are about to tell me is true?”

“No,” the man said, “actually I just heard about it and…”

“All right,” said Socrates. “So you don’t really know if it”s true or not. Now let”s try the second filter, the filter of goodness. Is what you are about to tell me about my friend something good?”

“No, on the contrary…”

“So,” Socrates continued, “you want to tell me something bad about him, but you’re not certain it”s true. You may still pass the test though, because there’s one filter left: the filter of usefulness. Is what you want to tell me about my friend going to be useful to me?”

“No, not really.”

“Well,” concluded Socrates, “if what you want to tell me is neither true nor good nor even useful, why tell it to me at all?”

If everyone worked to apply the three filters to their speech, I wouldn’t have to walk up on two ladies shamelessly gossiping about a third (one whom I know is supposed to be good friends with them).

Today’s Rant

Check out this great rant about Fast Food Frustrations. Oh so true!

Christian Carnival 187 – The Wonderful Cross

I’ve recently been meditating on Chris Tomlin’s version of that old hymn “The Wonderful Cross.” There’s some good stuff in that song, but one line rises above the rest whenever I hear the song:

Love so amazing, so divine demands my soul, my life, my all.

So this week’s Christian carnival is going to be divided into four categories–love, soul, life, and all.

Love:

But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us. Romans 5:7-9

ChristianPF presents Don’t give to the poor? posted at Money in the Bible | Christian Personal Finance Blog.

Chris Brooks presents Was the cross just? posted at Homeward Bound.

Soul:

Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength. Mark 12:30

Richard H. Anderson presents The Shepherd King posted at dokeo kago grapho soi kratistos Theophilos.

Terry Pruitt presents Obama: Muslim or Christian posted at Terry Pruitt’s Blog.

Father Chip presents The Echo to Eternity posted at Devotionals from Father Chip.

This week at Light Along the Journey John continues his blogging journey through John Piper’s book Future Grace with a look at The Inner Acts of the Soul of Faith.

At Jordan’s View,  Alex Jordan has in recent posts championed the cause of Christian truth.  He writes that defending objective truth is a challenge in this era of political correctness, tolerance and relativism, which has unfortunately infiltrated parts of the church.  In this first of a two-part article, Jordan explores Pilates’ age-old question: What is truth?

Weekend Fisher considers knowing God as the basis of all blessings in “What is doctrine for?” 

Life:

I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full. John 10:10

Nancy Geiger presents Walking in Faith posted at What I Learned Teaching Sunday School.

Ched presents An slpime alipcatoin of a wrod tcrik to rdeanig bliabcl nratveirs posted at Says Simpleton. (And no, that title isn’t a typo!)

Henry Neufeld presents Repentance: A Way of Life posted at Pacesetters Bible School Newsletter.

The View From Her offers thoughts on giving and stewardship in About Giving.

Diane R presents Old People and Emergents posted at Crossroads: Where Faith and Inquiry Meet.

Jeremy Pierce presents The Christianity of War? posted at Parableman.

Rey from the Bible Archive shares his son’s first day at school over at his personal site.

All:

To love him with all your heart, with all your understanding and with all your strength, and to love your neighbor as yourself is more important than all burnt offerings and sacrifices. Mark 12:33

Doug presents Christ at Creation: Vicariousness posted at Bounded Irrationality.

Don notices that evangelicals are going green and asks, “Will our conservative politicians be influenced by them?” in Green Elephants at the Evangelical Ecologist.

Paul Kuritz presents “I’m a Fool for Christ. Whose Fool are You?” posted at Paul Kuritz: Opinions.

Adam presents The Faughn Family of Four: Psalms 1-75: The Links posted at The Faughn Family of Four.

And finally, my own post Keeping the Faith recounts the upward swing in the slump of faith that I’ve recently encountered.

Update:

Gotta love spam filters. Ugh. Sorry to everyone whose post ended up in my spam folder, but I’ve fished them out so everyone can enjoy them.

Peter Smythe presents 2 Corinthians 5.21 – This Imputin’ Ain’t Computin’ posted at The Real Faith.

Jody Neufeld presents Latin Mass – Is going ‘back’ good? posted at Jody Along the Path.

Tom Gilson presents Three Threats to Science and Freedom? posted at Thinking Christian.

Jennifer in OR presents Expectations and Contentment posted at Diary of 1.

There were several submissions this week that could not be included because there was nothing in the article or the site it was posted on that was Christian in nature. If you have questions about whether your article should be submitted to the Christian Carnival, please see the guidelines posted at Parableman.

Keeping the Faith

The new Casting Crowns CD, The Altar and the Door, was released today. I pre-ordered it weeks ago because they’re my favorite band. They’re also a Christian band. And in spite of all of my conflicted feelings about Christianity, I was still really looking forward to this CD. I had mixed feelings about it, of course, because it seems like my reaction to all things Christian is cynical these days. But it was Casting Crowns! I’ve been in love with this band for years! In fact, the highlight of last year was attending a Casting Crowns concert.

So I went straight to Family Christian after work to pick it up. I had to wait in line, so I was looking around at everything and an unexpected emotion hit. Sorrow. Tears welled in my eyes as I looked around at the crosses on the wall and the books about grace and being confident and sure. I shook it off, picked up the CD and drove home. When I got home I took care of some business and immediately popped the CD into my laptop.

I started crying halfway through the first song.

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There’s a spoken part towards the end that says:

People aren’t confused by the gospel, they’re confused by us. Jesus is the only way to God, but we are not the only way to Jesus. This world does not need my tie, my hoodie, my denomination, or my translation of the Bible. They just need Jesus. We can be passionate about what we believe, but we can’t strap ourselves to the gospel because we’re slowing it down. Jesus is going to save the world, but maybe the best thing we can do is just get out of the way.

It made me realize what it was I was trying to leave behind. It isn’t Jesus–it’s the red-shirt haters (also known as “fundies”). That got lost among all of the voices that have been going on inside of my head since this whole thing started. In my quest to leave the baggage behind, I left everything behind, including the good stuff.

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Stumbled Monday

So instead of bombarding your feed readers with all of the great stuff I find through Stumble Upon, I’ve decided to do a weekly round-up. I’ve never had a regular feature before, so we’ll see how well this goes. Enjoy!

Learn 500 mostly useless facts – like the plastic things on the end of shoelaces are called aglets.

Squee at the cuteness. I’m not much for cuteness, but these even made me gush a little.

Watch a guitar played with four hands. I was impressed, but that doesn’t really mean much.

Watch Miss Teen South Carolina prove that she’s probably the dumbest person on the planet.

Get top secret copycat recipes. My favorite? Romano Crusted Chicken a la Cheesecake Factory.

Watch what would happen if business meetings were like internet comments (NSFW due to language). Thankfully none of my commenters are like this.

Check out these utterly gorgeous photographs of flowers.  My favorite is the peony.

Watch this homemade music video to Flagpole Sitta.

Get the recipe for a Negative Calorie Chocolate Cake. Sounds scrumptious!

Watch the story of Oedipus. In 8 minutes. Performed by vegetables. There’s one scene that may be NSFW (we all know that Oedipus gets it on with his mom).

See the only tool you’ll ever need.

Watch this funny photo booth gag.

Watch a redneck math lesson. I learned a lot! Did you know that 14 times 5 is 25?

Listen to your favorite TV theme songs. It’s time for animaniacs, and we’re zany to the max. So just sit back and relax, you’ll laugh til you collapse… Good stuff!

See the stuff Steve will eat that no one else will. Fermented soy-beans anyone?

Read the wit and satire that comes from The Simpsons.

Read about the horror of blimps.

See what happens when you just won’t let go.

See what a culturally, ethnically, religiously, and politically correct cartoon looks like.

Best Quote of the Day

Bart: What religion are you?
Homer: You know, the one with all the well-meaning rules that don’t work out in real life. Uh… Christianity.
Episode: 3F21 Homerpalooza

The Lives They Left Behind

I stumbled onto a site that tells an incredible story: the story of patients at Willard Asylum in New York state. Some of the stories are absolutely heartbreaking – the Japanese sailor who got lost in NY while in port and was wrongly institutionalized for more than 30 years because no one could understand him and thought he acted strange, or the former nun who was institutionalized and everyone thought she was lying about being a nun, or the woman whose children never visited her, though her daughter-in-law worked at the hospital. More than 50,000 people passed through Willard, and nearly half of them died there.

Go to the site. Read the stories. Remember the people whose lives were lost (literally) when they shouldn’t have been. Listen to the stories in the “Recollections” section.

I dare you to go through the site and not feel horror and heartbreak (especially for those who spent 50+ years at Willard).